DO YOU WANT MORE PLEASURE AND CONNECTION?

Over time, Ailsa has helped me to trust more and more how my own body serves as an important source of information.

- MBK

Somatic Sex Education Goes Beyond Talk Therapy To Incorporate Our Body’s Wisdom,

Re-calibrate Our Nervous System, And Engage Our Soul And Spirit In Our Healing

It can be especially effective for trauma recovery, reconnection with our true self, and expanding the possibilities for desire, joy and ecstasy to be more present in our everyday experience.

This modality works with individuals, couples and groups to expand the experience of being erotically alive in a way that feels personally and collectively empowering and overcomes the separation, marginalization and abuse that plague our social experiences in the modern world.

It is one of the most comprehensive and fulfilling modalities available at the present time.

01 It is a way of integrating all aspects of our body, mind and spirit, including our sexuality, to embrace our innate wholeness.

As human beings, we have a need for touch, connection and intimacy that goes beyond the superficial material constructs of today’s western culture.

Covering aspects of embodied ethics, integrative views on transforming the patriarchal power structure inherent in our world, and using pleasure and the power of choice and voice to guide our journey; a somatic sex educator can help you recreate a life you are in love with.

02 A typical session might include:

working on finding your voice and communicating your boundaries with individual and partner exercises inspired by Bioenergetics and physical theatre techniques
Exploring what you would say a full YES to in your sex life using art, expressive movement and sensory awareness
Learning to empower and ground in your body so that you can feel the full spectrum of sensation and emotion, with breathwork, archetypal stories, and inner child work
Transforming intense sensations and pain and overcoming obstacles to pleasure, orgasm and intimacy through exploring what feels good to your unique body
Body coaching and somatic awareness guidance around solo and partner sexual activities, including advice about practices and assistance with purchasing toys and equipment
Client led sensual bodywork to expand your repertoire of pleasure and arousal possibilities
Trauma-informed somatic exercises to give you the tools to heal from sexual, or other types of abuse using TRE (Trauma releasing exercises) and psychosomatic coaching
Knowledgeable and compassionate hands on guidance to enhance your personal journey to experiencing a full sexual life including masturbation coaching and genital mapping

03 Somatic Sex educators are trained to work alongside, and provide necessary support, to traditional and alternative health practitioners in dealing with issues such as:

low or no sexual desire
Early ejaculation
Erectile dysfunction
Preorgasmia
Dyspareunia (painful sex)
Vaginismus
Delayed ejaculation
Sexual inhibitions
Body dysphoria
Social/ dating skills
Sexual trauma
PTSD
Desire for enhanced pleasure
Lack of communication in partnerships
Imbalanced sexual desire within couple relationships

Online Somatic Coaching

A great way to begin to explore your capacity for pleasure. A 3 month container of support offers you 6 one hour sessions with email and voice messaging support in between your online Zoom sessions. A preliminary consult is complimentary and required in order to set up the best program for you.

Who's Is This For?

• You want to explore a particular issue or aspect of your relationship to yourself or others. This could be a physical, emotional or spiritual aspect where you are feeling stuck or blocked.

• You are ready to invest time and energy into healing or working on yourself and your relationships. This could mean setting aside the time, money or emotional space to focus on your own needs.

• You have some support or emotional resources in your life to help you if you need them

Requirement:

• A commitment to the process and to reaching out to me when you need support or clarification.

• The ability to put yourself as a priority and to commit to showing up for sessions and doing the homework.

• An ability to stay curious and realize that progress sometimes looks different than we imagine it will.

Who's Is This Not For?

• If you are severely traumatized or have an abuse history you may need to discuss having a local therapist at the same time as working with me or do some preliminary work with a trained trauma therapist in your locale.

• If you are not ready to commit the time or resources to working on yourself and are just looking for information, I recommend signing up for my newsletter or following my Blog or Podcast until you are ready to dive in.

Investment:

• 6 hour long sessions on Zoom

• Email and voice text support with Voxer

• Personal Practice suggestions and exercises specifically chosen for you

• $1500 CAD (including tax)

Results You Can Expect:

• In 6 sessions over three months you can expect to make significant progress in your ability to feel and name sensations in your body and to communicate what you are feeling.

• You will gain valuable communication skills in order to ask for what you want, name your desires and negotiate agreements with others.

• You will usually notice an increase in energy, joy, inner peace and the ability to connect with others after working with me.

Ready to take the next step?

Private Retreat Or In Person Session

A personalized session or retreat that allows us to create a session or series of sessions that may include Bodywork aspects to more deeply address your goals.